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Over the past decade, I’ve gone through my fair share of breakups. 

I’ve ended relationships with women I’d once thought I would marry. I’ve had partners leave me for other men. I’ve left otherwise good relationships because it was “good” and I felt I deserved “great.”

When I think back on some of my breakups, I wonder what it would have looked like if I’d stayed. When I think of others, I wonder why I didn’t end the relationship sooner. 

And after going through the romantic ringer, I’ve realized that the biggest (relationship) problem facing men today is that they don’t know how to filter out bad matches and enter into relationships with women who would fit well into their lives. They have no idea how to know when it’s time to break up, and they stay in terrible relationships for years. 

In this article, I will reveal the 11 signs you should break up with her, so you can stop wasting your time and mental health and create space for a relationship you would be a “hell yeah” about.

Looking back, I realize that every time I unnecessarily suffered (and by extension made my partner suffer) through months or years of a bad relationship… 

…It was because I was ignoring one or all of these signs. 

This article is by no means meant to be taken as gospel. I can’t tell you what is right or wrong for you and your relationship. I don’t know the nuances of your romantic life, and even if you see all 11 of these signs in your relationship…it could still be a relationship worth saving. 

All I can do is share my experience and the experience of the hundreds of men I’ve coached throughout the years. 

These signs are not commandments. Simply suggestions to help you navigate the difficult journey of answering the question, “Is the relationship over?”





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